We make our children unlearn sharing by teaching them possessiveness. If child gives his toy to someone, we tell it was yours.
Children doubt negativity in others, not positivity. So if we tell he is bad, they will ask why and how.
Having relationship power over child is better than having an authority power over child.
A child is going to remember who was there, not what you spent on them. Kids outgrow a toy & outfits, but they never outgrow time and love.
Let your child know every time you shout or punish him that it is being done out of care and concern. You don't like doing it but every good action has a reward and every bad action has a consequence.
Many people think that having a child instantly makes them a parent. Nothing could be further from the truth. "Nothing to it parenting" style is wrong.
Role Modelling works. Do as I am, and not Do as I say.
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