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Showing posts with label perfection. Show all posts
Showing posts with label perfection. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 24, 2022

Notes on the Book Open An autobiography

When you feel misunderstood or unrewarded, don't step aside. Instead, find a way to counterpunch, push back.

Perfection is rare. Don't let an imperfect performance throw you off your goal.

Stay steady and your opponent will wear down. Being consistent gets results.

Even if you hate what you do, find ways to respect it, to handle it better.

No matter where you are in life, change is possible. The journey is never over.

No one survives alone. Keep the right people close throughout your journey.

For Agassi, helping others is its own reward. Consider making use of your resources towards the long-term benefit of others.

In a career spanning over two decades, Andre Agassi has witnessed dizzy heights of success and suffered through controversy. But, he never gave up on his beliefs, whether in startling fashion statements or his distinct on-court performance. 'Open' is about welcoming life with all its shortcomings to live it to the fullest. 

Swinging the game to his favor was a trick Agassi had mastered very early in life. He recalls the grueling drill that led to the memorable return of serve that had his big-serve pro opponents quaking in their shoes. Work on your return to go far.

Agassi's rebel with a cause persona had a method to the madness: an obsession with perfection. So intense was his pursuit of excellence that it brought him down every time he perceived it to be a notch below expectation. 

The Punisher returned after a career slump with a steadier presence, one that held fast when challenged. Take a page out of Agassi's life to zero in on consistency, because when all else fails, resilience props you up.

It is not surprising that Agassi hated the game that scared, chased, and isolated him. And just when he began to get tired of hating tennis, he found his intense emotions turning into respect and love for what he did for a living.

After the worst plummet in his career, Aggasi found inspiration in Nelson Mandela's words. Just as he teetered on the brink of disaster, he understood that caring for others, and most importantly for ourselves, was paramount. Have you checked in on yourself today?

We are indeed the sum of our choices - including the people we surround ourselves with. Agassi has the sagacity to pick out the people who bring out the best in him. Who do you have on your team? Hold on to them fast.

(Emeritus Insights on the book by Andre Agassi)

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Wednesday, May 11, 2022

Notes on the Book The Confidence Code

For both men and women, confidence helps determine success. Competence alone isn't always enough.

Fear of failure can hold women back from taking action and trying something new. To gain mastery and build confidence, you have to step out of your comfort zone and act.

Your quest for perfection can become a major obstacle to fully realizing your potential.

Fight the urge to stay invisible. Ask for what you want. You'll never know what difference you can make unless you voice your opinion.

Though there are confidence-determining chemicals in our body that affect our behavior, there is no specific confidence gene. Men and women are equally likely to grow up confident or competent.

Rewire your brain for greater confidence by reframing negative thoughts into positive thoughts.

Women can build confidence by daring to use their differences to their advantage.

While women typically tend to undervalue their competence, men overestimate theirs, showing what the authors call 'honest over-confidence'.

Confidence grows from practicing skills but since women don't want to risk being wrong, they don't participate. This feeds a vicious cycle of under-confidence.

While girls rock academics, boys outperform them in the real world. The reason is often the need for perfection in women.

(Emeritus insights book summary)

I can be reached at gorask@gmail.com and whatsapp number 8800477973 for feedback, suggestions, ideas, collaboration, guest podcasts and other opportunities for working together.

My English Podcast "Lifebook" can be listened on the link https://anchor.fm/sanjay-gora7

My Hindi Podcast "Kitabi Keeda" can be listened on the link https://anchor.fm/sanjay-gora

Books written by me are available on Amazon, Flipkart and Notionpress sites.

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